[Direct answer]In the Beijing area, two years of age is a critical dividing line, but it's not an absolute criterion. According to Article 1084, Paragraph 3 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China (adopted on May 28, 2020 and implemented on January 1, 2021), children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers; for children over the age of two, if the parents fail to reach an agreement on custody, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle that is most beneficial to the minor children; for children over the age of eight, the court shall respect their true wishes. Therefore, before the age of two, the focus of the judgment is on "maternal priority"; after the age of two, it shifts to a comprehensive comparison of the parents' ability to raise children, the conditions for raising children, the stability of the living environment, and the children's emotional foundation. This change means that the focus of the evidence should also be adjusted accordingly, from emphasizing age to emphasizing who is more suitable for long-term care.
I. Problem background and typical scenarios
"Who will get custody of the child once he/she turns two?" is a question of great concern to many litigants. In practice, there are two common misunderstandings: first, some people believe that there is no preference for custody after the child turns two, but in reality, the court will still comprehensively consider who can provide a more stable and healthy growth environment; second, some people believe that if the child has always been with them, the custody will definitely be granted to them. However, if the other party has more regular working hours and better housing and educational resources, the outcome might be different. When courts in Beijing handle such cases, they usually compare the child's age, the parties' ability and conditions for child-rearing, the child's consistent upbringing, the child's wishes, and the parties' ideological and moral character one by one, and ultimately prioritize the best interests of the child.
II. Key points of contention
First, the significance of age milestones. For children under two years old, the principle is that they should be raised by their mothers. For children over two years old, the court will conduct a comprehensive comparison of the two parents' abilities to raise the child. For children over eight years old, the court will listen to the children's opinions. Second, the comparison of parenting abilities, including income level, work and rest schedule, housing conditions, family support, and whether the parent can personally care for the child. Third, the stability of the living environment. If a child has been cared for by one parent for a long time or has been living in a fixed kindergarten or community, a sudden change is generally considered detrimental to the child. Fourth, the parents' moral character. Parents with bad habits such as domestic violence, alcoholism, and gambling will be considered as unfavorable factors. Fifth, the application of alternating custody. Under the condition that it is beneficial to the child and both parents are eligible, the court may also allow alternating direct custody.
III. Professional analysis by Henglue Lawyers
Take a divorce dispute handled by Henglue Law Firm as an example: The couple had been married for many years and had children. One party first sued for divorce but was ruled not to be granted a divorce. The other party then discovered that the former party had been unfaithful during the marriage and subsequently entrusted the firm to file a lawsuit again. Attorney Xiong Binrong, on the one hand, collected evidence of the previous judgment ruling against the divorce and the party's fault to prove that there was no possibility of reconciliation between the couple. On the other hand, based on the children's growth environment, the parties' performance, and their ability to raise the children, she argued that the custody relationship should be determined in accordance with the principle of what is best for the minors, and insisted on the principle of fault liability to claim that the innocent party should receive a favorable treatment in the division of property. In the end, the court found that the party at fault had committed major faults, ruled that the children should live with the innocent party, and supported a higher proportion of favorable treatment in the division of joint property. This case shows that the determination of custody rights for children aged over two is a comprehensive consideration, and the parents' character and faults will be taken into account. In practice, we usually first sort out the children's consistent custody situation and the parties' conditions, and then decide whether to focus on "stable environment" or "better conditions" to provide evidence. If the children live with their grandparents and it is necessary to evaluate living and educational resources, it can be combined with other evidence.Real estate transactions and construction projectsThe experience of housing conditions and ownership identification in China; for those involving family property inheritance arrangements, they can refer to it for reference.\nInheritance of property and division of family assetsThe idea behind this case. This case was handled by Beijing Henglu Law Firm.Xiong BinrongThe lawyer (practice license number: 11101202211410897, subject to the certificate issued by the judicial administrative organ) acts on behalf of clients, relying on his accurate understanding of local judicial interpretations and practical rules, to help clients achieve favorable outcomes.
IV. Practical suggestions and legal basis
According to Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China (effective January 1, 2021) and Articles 44 to 48 of the Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Marriage and Family Chapter of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China (effective January 1, 2021), regarding the determination and modification of custody rights, it is recommended to prepare in four steps: First, fix the consistent custody facts, including pick-up and drop-off records, medical and education records, community and kindergarten certificates, daily images and chat records; Second, prove their own custody conditions, including income and stability, housing and school districts, available time, and the willingness and ability of family assistance in childcare; Third, if claiming that the other party is not suitable for custody, provide evidence around bad habits, violence, and negligent care; Fourth, if the child is over eight years old, properly record their true wishes and avoid putting pressure on them. Related litigation can be referred to for reference.Divorce litigation and family disputesFor the practical path, which involves planning both education and living arrangements, you can do it throughSpecialised legal services统筹。
5. Henglue Law Firm's Advice
After the age of two, the competition is not about who loves the child more, but about who can provide the child with a more stable life. Three reminders: First, do not belittle the other parent or take away the child in front of the child, as the court will pay attention to who is maintaining the child's psychological stability; Second, do not resign or deliberately change the living environment in order to obtain custody rights, as the court will identify such temporary adjustments; Third, after the custody relationship is determined, if there are major changes in the circumstances, it is still possible to request a change in the custody relationship through litigation.Beijing Henglu Law FirmIt is recommended to clarify the arrangements for child custody, visitation, and education in the divorce agreement once and for all, so as to reduce future disputes and arguments.
VI. Frequently Asked Questions
Q1: The child has just turned two years old. Who will be granted custody of the child?
The principle is that children who have reached the age of two should no longer be raised by their mothers, and the court will instead comprehensively compare and evaluate based on the principle that is most beneficial to the minor children. The court will examine the parties' ability and conditions for raising children, their consistent parenting practices, the stability of their living environment, and the parents' moral character. The parent who is more likely to provide a stable and healthy growth environment will be more likely to gain custody of the children.
Q2: What evidence do I need to prepare?
The pick-up and drop-off records for long-term care, medical records, kindergarten or school certificates, community certificates, daily photos and chat records, personal income, housing, daily routine, and family support materials, as well as evidence of the other party's bad habits, violence, or negligence when claiming that they are unfit to raise the child.
Q3: Approximately how much does it cost to fight for custody rights?
The litigation fees are paid together with the divorce case. For each divorce case, the fee ranges from 50 yuan to 300 yuan. For the part involving property division with a total amount exceeding 200,000 yuan, the fee shall be paid in proportion to the total amount; there will be additional expenses for appraisal or authentication; and the attorney's fees shall be determined by negotiation based on the amount of the claim or the stage of the litigation.
Q4: How long does it take from filing a lawsuit to determining custody rights?
Cases subject to simplified procedures are generally concluded within three months, and those subject to ordinary procedures take about six months. Cases involving appraisal and evaluation, announcement and service, or second-instance trials will take longer. Cases that are settled through mediation with the consent of both parties are usually resolved the fastest.
Q5: What should I do first?
First, confirm whether the child's exact age has reached two years old, and based on that, determine the focus of the evidence; then organize the facts of consistent upbringing and their own upbringing conditions into a systematic set of evidence, and decide whether to resolve the issue through negotiation or seek legal redress through litigation.
The above content is based on the judicial practices in the Beijing area. The facts of individual cases and the jurisdiction of the court may affect the conclusions. Welcome to consult Henglue Lawyers about specific situations.
If you are facing similar problems, it is recommended that you consult a professional lawyer as soon as possible with the relevant evidence materials to avoid missing the statutory time limit. →Divorce litigation legal services·Attorney Xiong Binrong·Beijing Henglu Law Firm
Disclaimer: This article is compiled based on the current effective laws and regulations and open adjudication rules, and is for general reference only. It does not constitute a formal legal opinion on specific cases. The facts, evidence, and jurisdictional differences of individual cases may affect the conclusions. If you encounter disputes, please consult a practicing lawyer in time.